After weeks of cat fighting, crying and kissing, Cocktail has come out on top. She is the first-ever winner of For the Love of Ray J.
She also hopes to be the last.
In her first post-show interview, Ray J's new squeeze talks about the status of her relationship with the aspiring singer....
What’s the status of your relationship?
He’s my boyfriend, and the fact that I’m not seeing my boyfriend as much as I’d like to is different from what I’m used to. I would love to see him everyday and have him come home to me every night. But that’s not what it is, and I have to take it for what it is. I’m patiently learning his lifestyle. I expected this, but I’m sad now that I’m going through it. But it just makes the times I see him even more special.
Do you love him?
I do. I’m in love with him. I’m head over heels. When I tell my girlfriends that they’re like, “Are you kidding me?” No, this is the only man in my life right now that can say anything to me and make me fall into tears. It takes someone that I care about to go through with that emotion and show my vulnerability. I know I cried every three seconds on the show, but I care about him so much that he can say anything, the sweetest thing, the most horrible thing, and I burst into tears. I’m so overwhelmed.
So where do you go from here with Ray?
We’re going to try to make it work. We take things as they come. We’re regular people. I know people are like, “He’s this big R&B artist, this big star,” but he’s just like me and you. He’s a regular person with regular feelings. We’re gonna make the best of this and if it works out, it’s better for me and him. We found what we always wanted, and it’s love.
Click on the pics above to relive Cocktail's time on For the Love of Ray J.






April 21st, 2009 10:22 AM
I HONESTLY DON'T LIKE COCKTAIL. I LOVED DANGER BECUZ SHE KEPT IT REAL AND THOSE SCARED AS BITCHES JUST DIDN'T NO HOW 2 TAKE HER. ALSO I DO REALLY THINK DANGER IS PREGANT SO ALL YALL BITCHES NEED 2 FACE REALITY. DUESES
April 21st, 2009 11:19 AM
I dont think its gonr to last at all because. He should of kept danger.
April 21st, 2009 11:49 AM
I AM SO GLAD THAT HE PICKED COCKTAIL I LOVE HER SHE WAS THE REALIST ONE ON THE SHOW I REALLY HOPE THEY STAY TOGETHER FOREVER.
April 21st, 2009 6:08 PM
Im glad he picked cocktail. Danger was a psycho. Yall must be crazy like her. Goodluck cocktail and ray j
April 21st, 2009 9:01 PM
i think he should have picked danger she kept it real with him from the start.... and i really think he should of gotten 2 kno her a litte more....i also think cocktail is a GOLDDIGGER!!!!!!!!!!
April 21st, 2009 10:15 PM
what about WHITNEY????????
April 21st, 2009 10:51 PM
I AM HAPPY HE PICKED COCKTAIL. I REALLY WANT TO KNOW IF DANGER IS REALLY PREGNANT. THE REAL QUESTION IS WHERE IS WHITNEY AND IS SHE A DONE DEAL. I WISH RAY J (WILLIE) COCKTAIL (MONICA) THE BEST OF LUCK. CAN'T WAIT TO SEE THEM TOGETHER IN CARSON SORRY I WILL NOT SAY THE STREET BUT I DO KNOW HIS COUSINS.
April 21st, 2009 11:04 PM
SORRY FOLKS I MEANT TO TYPE GOOD LUCK TO RAY J AND COCKTAIL. NOT COCKTAIL MONICA WRONG REAL NAME FOLKS
April 21st, 2009 11:20 PM
Ray J is fucking stupid he should have picked unique , unique is very pretty , and real , she aint cry every second like that ugly bitch cocktail fucking skank ass slut. Ray just dont know how to handle a strong black woman he found a whore thats def gonna give him a run for his money. Ray ur a fuckin bighead big eyed ass loser. And cocktail looks like a fuckin cat and has no shape or ass!! ill give it a couple weeks before i hear on tv or magazine that yah broke up ..
April 22nd, 2009 11:09 AM
Ray J is a joke. I wasted my time watching that show. I wanted Danger to win, people can't handle realness. She was honest, never lied even if it would get her in trouble. I can't believe he picked cocktail. Lmfao. But that was expected, she reminds me of his ex Kim. I guess he's not over he yet. Like they say ur exes always have something in common, lol. and why do they keep saying Ray J is this big r&b artist, this big star, lol. I aint hating or anything but if he was this big star he wouldn't be in a vh1 reality show, cmon, lets be serious people. Do you say Jay-Z in a vh1 reality show looking for love? do we say Lil Wayne? Beyonce, Alicia Keys? lmfaOoo and u call Ray J a big star. bwahahahahahaah