Wasn't Molly the one in the beginning that knew EVERY detail about his life, they called her a stalker?? If so she made it, look out douchebag jason
Gina Says:
March 3rd, 2009 4:56 PM
Jason, I hope you read this because I totally agree with what you did.YOU ARE NOT A LOSER or A SCHMUCK !!!I repect that you did not want to lead Melissa on. You are a HONEST MAN. I watch the show last year and this year, and felt disappointed for you last season. I felt really awful last night after the show, ( I was for Melissa) and had to rewatch it and then reading all this stuff about you I feel the public really did not understand. I normally would not get on the internet to try to find someone, but I feel you are a stand up guy and you follow your heart. YOU said you wanted to tell Melissa in private, but as I understand it the network wanted you to do it on air. They just wanted THE BIG RATING and forgot that you all are real people not actors playing a part in a TV show. I get it, This is real Life, people break up, you did the right & honorable thing. I just can't understand why the public is being so harsh to you. I applaud you for being honest. You said it over and over maybe you were not the right type of person to do a show like this. You fell in love, dating many women at one time. That has to mess with your head.I can understand your confusion, and with the way you express your emotions, your a real man, a man that will be true to his heart, and not let the public allow him not to follow his heart. You also explain you did shield Ty, he was unaware who was your love interested and who were the producers ect ect. I just don't get why others did not hear anything you were saying when you were explaining your self. Well maybe because they were upset for Melissa, & My heart goes out to her, but you did the right thing. You did not lead her on. I feel you were in love with her, & by your reaction when letting go Molly you were in love with her too. And that is what you said. How can you truly get to know someone under that situation. You and Melissa needed time away from "TV Land", and that is when the true personalities come out. Again you went with your gut feeling, made a mistake, and trying to correct it. All you can do now is go with your heart, you may end up after spending time with Molly find she is not right for you, or you not right for her. You did the right thing.
My wish to you is to put this behide you, and go forward, I hope you find what you are looking for.
Good luck to you
gina Says:
March 3rd, 2009 5:15 PM
Married: I don't think Molly was the one THAT KNEW EVERYTHING...that girl was the one that was crying and he didn't want to kiss her because she had tissue & yuk on her face ...remember? Also He did the honest thing, would you want to be lead down a road like that...better now then later....and he is uncontract with the show he HAD to do it on air !!!! He also said he was talking to Melissa and he said that he told her things were not going in the right direction, Melissa knew something was wrong.
Sheri Says:
March 3rd, 2009 5:26 PM
I was so disgusted with Jason last night.He put on a good show saying he was looking for someone to fit in with him and tye but he was only looking out for himself. He goes on and on about how he was so hurt while on the bachelor and then he hurts Melissa. I feel he made a big mistake breaking up with her for Molly.Everybody thought last season was bad when Brad sent both girls home,well at least he had the balls to not choose one and then change his mind!Jason is a snake for sure and I hope Molly will open her eyes and see she should never have given him another try,afterall she was second best!!!
Karin Says:
March 3rd, 2009 5:46 PM
Lovely K, I could not agree more. I think we all should decied to NEVER watch the Bachelor or Bachelorette again. This was simply too low. Sickening!
Melissa, if you read this- I hope you get over this soon, it should be easier now when you know what an ashole he is, and that it is good that he is out of your life. I think most people are on your side which I hope helpes you through this. You deserve someone just like you, loving, caring a great friend! Also-PLEASE DONT BE THE NEXT BACHELORETTE!!! Find your live in other ways. I am sure guys will stand in line for you....
Katie Says:
March 3rd, 2009 6:48 PM
These shows are incredibly shallow, as is much of what is on TV posing as entertainment. I cannot believe that people waste their time watching this junk!!! When did we become a nation of voyeurs -- watching other people's pain? I'm disgusted with anyone who would watch this crap!
Sweet Emotion Says:
March 3rd, 2009 6:50 PM
Just wait until Molly dumps Jason, it will be sweet!!! Do you really think this 24 year old is ready to be a mommy to his kid? And we all thought Deanna was vicious when she dumped him! You know I didn't realize what a creep he was until he went home so the girls could meet his parents. I thought it was a bit odd when his entire family sort of huddled around him like he was this delicate thing. Jason has probably gotten away wit this type of behavior before - and then the tears when he's talking to his mommy - come on dude - MAN UP! No matter how you slice it, this dude is a class A pathological, narcissistic, manipulator.
Lori Says:
March 3rd, 2009 6:55 PM
I liked Melissa. I can't believe he did that on national TV. Did anyone know that Melissa is a Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader? That was never mentioned from what I remember. I swore I would never watch the show again but I find I keep on watching and get furious every year.....thank god I am married and have 2 wonderful children...what drama!
b-fan Says:
March 3rd, 2009 7:49 PM
Lori, It was a known fact that Melissa was a ex cheerleader you must have miss that. I think Jason thought Melissa was more like his ex-wife then he wanted. His ex is a model/actress,long dark hair, great body, very pretty. Melissa said she wanted to be a teacher BUT look at her photo's (bathing suit) maybe she still wanted to go into somesort of show business career. & He found that out durning these past 6 weeks. He said that he felt they did not want the same things. Maybe he really was looking for someone like Molly not into the business. He was honest and we must not get on him for that. If it was anyone of us we would rather be told now rather then later. Maybe not on TV...but that was out of his controll...there is a contract, and those of you who say hell with the contract WELL your w not the one who has to pay the $$$ for breaking the contract.
Mariel Says:
March 3rd, 2009 9:19 PM
I think Jason made a mistake in following his Mom and Deanna's advice. In picking Melissa he picked the woman he thought was the safe choice and Molly was the wildcard. In the end he couldn't deny his heart and wanted Molly back. What is horrible is that it had to be played out in front of millions of viewers to the humiliation of Melissa. Melissa is always the dumpee so maybe she isn't so sweet when the cameras aren't rolling. She definitely has a bitchy side which you could see in earlier episodes with the other girls. Still no one deserves to be humiliated that way so I wish them all the best. Deanna asking for another chance was pretty humiliating too. I always thought Jillian would have been a great wife for Jason so hope she's the next Bachelorette.
Vicky Says:
March 4th, 2009 2:00 AM
Will never watch the show again. It all appeared to be scripted only to create another "exciting finale." It's time for the show to go.
Angie Says:
March 4th, 2009 11:25 AM
I think that Jason did the right thing. We are human's and human's make mistakes. Yes, Melissa's heart was broken but it's best to have done it now than to do it later. When the camera's are gone, that's when you see their real colors.
I think Jason is a good person and Molly and Jason make a lovely couple.
kallypso Says:
March 4th, 2009 1:01 PM
Jason is the kind of men who wants so deeply to be in love but he seems unstable as well. To be in love with two maybe three women at the same time is so unreal! He played all the season with women's feelings and i'm not surprised about the dumping: all he said about Molly and Melissa at the same time were the exact same words and feelings... It appears clearly this guy doesn't know what he wants, maybe in a couple of weeks he will remember DeAnna, or even another woman from this season.
I don't know how the little kid can figure out what his father is doing,I think this is not really good for him.
However, I don't trust Jason at all, he deeply needs to " think " before any decision.
Jason is not the nice guy we thought he was, simply the handsome one who needs many women around him.
It's so obvious he's not ready to settle down, I really think he's going to dump the poor Molly in a couple of weeks.
LLL Says:
March 4th, 2009 1:11 PM
I think Jason did the right thing in breaking up now rather than later the awful part was doing it on national television. I am sorry but I think there is no money in the world that should make you change your principles and I think he sold his out for the "ratings." Also, if he was so confused why why give Melissa the ring to begin with. I don't think Melissa is bitchy, I actually think that because she is so nice and caregiving everyone ends up walking all over her. Hope Molly works out but she is too career oriented right now and I am sorry since she is so "in love" with Jason blah blah but she hasn't moved to Seattle yet. She is only having "weekend" trips, they haven't gotten to know each other either. I think Melissa spent more quality time with him - i.e. the holidays- and had more day to day activity with him than Molly has and I think that is his problem. He can't handle day to day. Watch out Molly.
J.T. Says:
March 4th, 2009 1:41 PM
No man is worth crying over and the one who is ..won't make you cry.
Liv Says:
March 4th, 2009 1:48 PM
I'm sure the X wife could fill in all the blanks. Melissa deserves so much better in life then he could ever amount to or offer her ~ count your blessings :)
Molly's totally short changed herself with this deal ~ a leopard doesn't change it's spots !!!
Lisa Says:
March 4th, 2009 1:51 PM
I cannot believe that Jason did what he did to Melissa. If he felt such a strong connection with Molly to begin with, he should have never proposed to Melissa. She would have been heartbroken, but can you imagine her heart break (10x worse) to find out that he was leaving her because he still had feelings for Molly. As for Molly, if I were her, I would not have taken him back. HELLO! You are the second choice! I understand feelings don't just disappear when you have stong feelings for someone but he obviously doesn't know what he wants, or he would have proposed to Molly in the first place. I hope I don't ever run into Jason in person, because I will definitely give him a piece of my mind. He is a horrible person for doing that and nothing will ever make me feel any different. What a JERK!
Lisa Says:
March 4th, 2009 3:19 PM
What is all this talk about "falling in love" with two different people at the same time. Love, TRUE LOVE, is a once in a lifetime thing, in my opinion, and real love happens between TWO people, no more. And even if Jason loved both of them, then he should not have proposed to either one of them on national television to let his "fiancee" be humiliated. I understand there is a contract, but a REAL man would not do that to the woman that he supposedly loves.
Linda Says:
March 4th, 2009 4:27 PM
you are a jerk Jason , I knew it first time I watched the bachelor . from the movements of your eyes each time you were talking to these girls . you dont know what you want , I think this is the mean reason why you are divorced . you were confused between a spontanious woman who is Melissa and a controling woman Molly. to be honest with you, from all these women Jill and Stephanie were the best , but I guess not for you which is good for them ... you shouldnt propose to Melisa if you felt that you are in love with Moly too , and you should not break up with her on national tv that is rediculous . Moly you are a sick woman , you just wanted you things your own way . you didnt accept to fail that s why you took this jerk back , you should give him hard time , after all you are a second choice and if you marry him you will control him very well and remind him of his mistake , you are an idiot Jason , how can you use your kid . melisa belive on yourself and move on , dont say that you are the daumpee anymore you become famous now ,just move on , your man will come to you ,
yedy Says:
March 4th, 2009 6:28 PM
I am not judging any of them, but making analysis and comparison of the three parties’ personality with regards to Jason’s expectations, life reality and human behaviour. There is something that you don’t see Molly was more realistic in her interaction with Jason. Their emotions were not a flash; they grow gradually, and she expressed them in many different ways one step at a time knowing when and how to take further steps. In that short period of time, she put all her cards on the table and gave Jason a preview of what their life together would be if he chose her. On the other hand, Melissa-Jason’s interactions were monotonous, and this kind of relationship is boring and does not take long to fade. On the show set they were offered all the fantasies for free, so it was easy for every one to dream and enjoy, but after the show, was Melissa able to follow up in order to keep the flame well lit? I see her more as a typical woman who waits for the man to give the note; “this is her original personality”. We can even see it in her previous relationships according to her friends say during the hometown visit “her former partner would go hang out with friends instead of being with her, and she went on with it for many years.” Also, there were many question marks about Melissa, besides she said to Jason that she had a breast reduction surgery, and we don’t know what the after-show reality was. There might have been serious discoveries and issues to face in the real life that he did not know during the show process. I am a woman and I am aware that my gender likes to hide important truth to a man in order to win him then let him face fact. Jason was looking for happiness, not problems. I feel that there are pieces missing to build the puzzle that we may never find out to understand the “WHY?”
yedy Says:
March 4th, 2009 6:29 PM
For you ladies out there, women can deal with monotony easily, but know that men are different, they love to try new things, and hate to be the back bone and the one taking initiatives all the time. They feel more secure with a woman who has the got to take charge, create, innovate, and those actions are relative to the man’s life style. Remember that they have dreams to fulfill just like you, and the same way you rely on them to make your dreams come true, they rely on you to help them fulfill theirs and make them happy in every way. So if you want to keep your partner, take the lead; not to be “the boss”, but to bring the best out of him every day, and you will harvest happiness. For example, if your partner loves to hang out with his friends and you want him to be around; instead of letting him go to them, invite them over as often as you can to a barbecue, or an evening tea with social games, group camping, or beach parties (asking every one to prepare food and bring necessaries). This is all Molly was about in the entire process, and I give her credit for that. After letting the other ladies go all they felt was heart break for themselves, but Molly knowing she was so ready to make Jason happy, was rather worried that he had repeated his mistake and could be hurt again. Remember that the girls exchanged reflections along the process and they know each other’s mind. We are just viewers behind the walls.
Mom in North Carolina.... Says:
March 4th, 2009 11:45 PM
First and foremost ...Jason is a peckerhead...this whole thing just made me ANGRY..I hear the part where he had to do it ..but on T.V....where is your dignity...If you were a real man with balls...(which obviously your not..you big crying p-----)you would never had agreed to this on T.V....somewhere somehow you should have found a way...Isn't it weird to anyone that before the 6weeks was up he was basically quitting...I wonder if he was the same way with his exwife....when is this man going to grow up....He claims to have been hurt and then turns around and hurts someone in the most humilating way possible...you truly have some issues...I can't believe how you handled this ...and I am soooo happy we don't have to see the bullshit crying you do so well...maybe you should start acting for the Hallmark channel...you would be soooo perfect there...All I can do now is pray for Melissa because in case you didn't know you little prick...it's bullshitters like you that turn nice girls like Melissa to bitches...Yes...this is a huge thing you did to a young lady....you are 32 years old if your momma hasn't told you it's about time you act your age not your shoe size imbesol...which is probably know bigger than a 9....you want the public to believe you truly feel bad about what was happening yet....you took no time ask Molly for a chance...A real man would have broken up with her if he had to because whatever your reasons but to disrespect her like this and ask Molly for a chance so quick...A real man would have waited...in respect for the feelings of that person that you cared about....This is what everyone is mad about...how you handled it....Producers might have told you to break up with her on T.V. to make it official...but could you not have waited a few months after then called Molly If it is true love as you claim then it would have been there awhile later...OOOPPPs maybe not you change your mind so quickly or is because you love all the attention your getting from all the shows that have had you after...I just can't believe how you fooled us...and I believe you have gotten a little to big headed for your body..I truly feel sorry for Ty...because how can you teach Ty to grow up to become a real man...when you are NOT...Your kinda like the DEVIL Jason....Your very deceiving...Shame on you for what you are doing or better yet for what you have done ...and know this PAYBACKS ARE A B=---!Know this the devil use to be an Angel from God until he got greedy....You have taken two young ladies....who are at the biggining of there lives and screwd with their hearts...and messed with there minds...Did you not learn anything in your life ...Do you even know what LOVE is...I think Not...what you have is LUST ...another sign from the Devil....Good luck Molly...and Melissa thank God for getting you away from all this...You must be pretty special for God to intercede and take you away from the devils hand...He must have a better plan for you ...You are so special....and True True love will come....Just have faith....Mr Goodguy is out there for you and when meet him you will know this was God's gift to you...I wish you Melissa the best .....and let's face it you gotta feel sorry for Molly she is soooOOo stupidly blinded and being sloppy seconds is never truly winning....besides you are to pretty and sweet and deserves a real man ...not a mommas cry baby!!!If I was Melissas' parents I would want to hurt this guy for doing what he did....If I was Molly's parents I would have some serious issues about him dating my daughter....and my daughter would have been brought home to talk about the mistake she is making...obviously Molly is very insecure to take back this peckerhead so quickly....I can tell you this my husband would not be happy on how this peckerhead handled himself....No respect for Melissa for insulting her and No respect for Molly to have thrown her a bone at the end....What a as Melissa put it soooooOOO perfectly ..B======!!!! ........
teela Says:
March 5th, 2009 1:19 PM
I think there is way more to Melissa than meets the eye. We have all seen these types of people they come off really together in the beginning and then turn into clinging, needy possessive nightmares once they think they have you. I personally think Jason is too kind to say exactly what happened. She had him, he thought he loved her more than Molly. My question is what did Melissa do? How do we know Jason didn't genuinely want Melissa but she changed drastically and left him thinking oh my God I gave up the wrong one.
I may be wrong but who's to say without really knowing what happened after the final rose and what Melissa's role was in that.
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Donna Says:
March 11th, 2009 8:54 PM
I would REALLY like to know the ENTIRE truth behind the Jason and Melissa breakup. I guarantee you that we are not being told everything- not yet anyways. Something happened. Unlike many others, I don't have any harsh words for Jason or Molly. I always felt that Melissa had a dark side. Just a feeling. But I have no harsh words for her either.
March 3rd, 2009 4:27 PM
Wasn't Molly the one in the beginning that knew EVERY detail about his life, they called her a stalker?? If so she made it, look out douchebag jason
March 3rd, 2009 4:56 PM
Jason, I hope you read this because I totally agree with what you did.YOU ARE NOT A LOSER or A SCHMUCK !!!I repect that you did not want to lead Melissa on. You are a HONEST MAN. I watch the show last year and this year, and felt disappointed for you last season. I felt really awful last night after the show, ( I was for Melissa) and had to rewatch it and then reading all this stuff about you I feel the public really did not understand. I normally would not get on the internet to try to find someone, but I feel you are a stand up guy and you follow your heart. YOU said you wanted to tell Melissa in private, but as I understand it the network wanted you to do it on air. They just wanted THE BIG RATING and forgot that you all are real people not actors playing a part in a TV show. I get it, This is real Life, people break up, you did the right & honorable thing. I just can't understand why the public is being so harsh to you. I applaud you for being honest. You said it over and over maybe you were not the right type of person to do a show like this. You fell in love, dating many women at one time. That has to mess with your head.I can understand your confusion, and with the way you express your emotions, your a real man, a man that will be true to his heart, and not let the public allow him not to follow his heart. You also explain you did shield Ty, he was unaware who was your love interested and who were the producers ect ect. I just don't get why others did not hear anything you were saying when you were explaining your self. Well maybe because they were upset for Melissa, & My heart goes out to her, but you did the right thing. You did not lead her on. I feel you were in love with her, & by your reaction when letting go Molly you were in love with her too. And that is what you said. How can you truly get to know someone under that situation. You and Melissa needed time away from "TV Land", and that is when the true personalities come out. Again you went with your gut feeling, made a mistake, and trying to correct it. All you can do now is go with your heart, you may end up after spending time with Molly find she is not right for you, or you not right for her. You did the right thing.
My wish to you is to put this behide you, and go forward, I hope you find what you are looking for.
Good luck to you
March 3rd, 2009 5:15 PM
Married: I don't think Molly was the one THAT KNEW EVERYTHING...that girl was the one that was crying and he didn't want to kiss her because she had tissue & yuk on her face ...remember? Also He did the honest thing, would you want to be lead down a road like that...better now then later....and he is uncontract with the show he HAD to do it on air !!!! He also said he was talking to Melissa and he said that he told her things were not going in the right direction, Melissa knew something was wrong.
March 3rd, 2009 5:26 PM
I was so disgusted with Jason last night.He put on a good show saying he was looking for someone to fit in with him and tye but he was only looking out for himself. He goes on and on about how he was so hurt while on the bachelor and then he hurts Melissa. I feel he made a big mistake breaking up with her for Molly.Everybody thought last season was bad when Brad sent both girls home,well at least he had the balls to not choose one and then change his mind!Jason is a snake for sure and I hope Molly will open her eyes and see she should never have given him another try,afterall she was second best!!!
March 3rd, 2009 5:46 PM
Lovely K, I could not agree more. I think we all should decied to NEVER watch the Bachelor or Bachelorette again. This was simply too low. Sickening!
Melissa, if you read this- I hope you get over this soon, it should be easier now when you know what an ashole he is, and that it is good that he is out of your life. I think most people are on your side which I hope helpes you through this. You deserve someone just like you, loving, caring a great friend! Also-PLEASE DONT BE THE NEXT BACHELORETTE!!! Find your live in other ways. I am sure guys will stand in line for you....
March 3rd, 2009 6:48 PM
These shows are incredibly shallow, as is much of what is on TV posing as entertainment. I cannot believe that people waste their time watching this junk!!! When did we become a nation of voyeurs -- watching other people's pain? I'm disgusted with anyone who would watch this crap!
March 3rd, 2009 6:50 PM
Just wait until Molly dumps Jason, it will be sweet!!! Do you really think this 24 year old is ready to be a mommy to his kid? And we all thought Deanna was vicious when she dumped him! You know I didn't realize what a creep he was until he went home so the girls could meet his parents. I thought it was a bit odd when his entire family sort of huddled around him like he was this delicate thing. Jason has probably gotten away wit this type of behavior before - and then the tears when he's talking to his mommy - come on dude - MAN UP! No matter how you slice it, this dude is a class A pathological, narcissistic, manipulator.
March 3rd, 2009 6:55 PM
I liked Melissa. I can't believe he did that on national TV. Did anyone know that Melissa is a Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader? That was never mentioned from what I remember. I swore I would never watch the show again but I find I keep on watching and get furious every year.....thank god I am married and have 2 wonderful children...what drama!
March 3rd, 2009 7:49 PM
Lori, It was a known fact that Melissa was a ex cheerleader you must have miss that. I think Jason thought Melissa was more like his ex-wife then he wanted. His ex is a model/actress,long dark hair, great body, very pretty. Melissa said she wanted to be a teacher BUT look at her photo's (bathing suit) maybe she still wanted to go into somesort of show business career. & He found that out durning these past 6 weeks. He said that he felt they did not want the same things. Maybe he really was looking for someone like Molly not into the business. He was honest and we must not get on him for that. If it was anyone of us we would rather be told now rather then later. Maybe not on TV...but that was out of his controll...there is a contract, and those of you who say hell with the contract WELL your w not the one who has to pay the $$$ for breaking the contract.
March 3rd, 2009 9:19 PM
I think Jason made a mistake in following his Mom and Deanna's advice. In picking Melissa he picked the woman he thought was the safe choice and Molly was the wildcard. In the end he couldn't deny his heart and wanted Molly back. What is horrible is that it had to be played out in front of millions of viewers to the humiliation of Melissa. Melissa is always the dumpee so maybe she isn't so sweet when the cameras aren't rolling. She definitely has a bitchy side which you could see in earlier episodes with the other girls. Still no one deserves to be humiliated that way so I wish them all the best. Deanna asking for another chance was pretty humiliating too. I always thought Jillian would have been a great wife for Jason so hope she's the next Bachelorette.
March 4th, 2009 2:00 AM
Will never watch the show again. It all appeared to be scripted only to create another "exciting finale." It's time for the show to go.
March 4th, 2009 11:25 AM
I think that Jason did the right thing. We are human's and human's make mistakes. Yes, Melissa's heart was broken but it's best to have done it now than to do it later. When the camera's are gone, that's when you see their real colors.
I think Jason is a good person and Molly and Jason make a lovely couple.
March 4th, 2009 1:01 PM
Jason is the kind of men who wants so deeply to be in love but he seems unstable as well. To be in love with two maybe three women at the same time is so unreal! He played all the season with women's feelings and i'm not surprised about the dumping: all he said about Molly and Melissa at the same time were the exact same words and feelings... It appears clearly this guy doesn't know what he wants, maybe in a couple of weeks he will remember DeAnna, or even another woman from this season.
I don't know how the little kid can figure out what his father is doing,I think this is not really good for him.
However, I don't trust Jason at all, he deeply needs to " think " before any decision.
Jason is not the nice guy we thought he was, simply the handsome one who needs many women around him.
It's so obvious he's not ready to settle down, I really think he's going to dump the poor Molly in a couple of weeks.
March 4th, 2009 1:11 PM
I think Jason did the right thing in breaking up now rather than later the awful part was doing it on national television. I am sorry but I think there is no money in the world that should make you change your principles and I think he sold his out for the "ratings." Also, if he was so confused why why give Melissa the ring to begin with. I don't think Melissa is bitchy, I actually think that because she is so nice and caregiving everyone ends up walking all over her. Hope Molly works out but she is too career oriented right now and I am sorry since she is so "in love" with Jason blah blah but she hasn't moved to Seattle yet. She is only having "weekend" trips, they haven't gotten to know each other either. I think Melissa spent more quality time with him - i.e. the holidays- and had more day to day activity with him than Molly has and I think that is his problem. He can't handle day to day. Watch out Molly.
March 4th, 2009 1:41 PM
No man is worth crying over and the one who is ..won't make you cry.
March 4th, 2009 1:48 PM
I'm sure the X wife could fill in all the blanks. Melissa deserves so much better in life then he could ever amount to or offer her ~ count your blessings :)
Molly's totally short changed herself with this deal ~ a leopard doesn't change it's spots !!!
March 4th, 2009 1:51 PM
I cannot believe that Jason did what he did to Melissa. If he felt such a strong connection with Molly to begin with, he should have never proposed to Melissa. She would have been heartbroken, but can you imagine her heart break (10x worse) to find out that he was leaving her because he still had feelings for Molly. As for Molly, if I were her, I would not have taken him back. HELLO! You are the second choice! I understand feelings don't just disappear when you have stong feelings for someone but he obviously doesn't know what he wants, or he would have proposed to Molly in the first place. I hope I don't ever run into Jason in person, because I will definitely give him a piece of my mind. He is a horrible person for doing that and nothing will ever make me feel any different. What a JERK!
March 4th, 2009 3:19 PM
What is all this talk about "falling in love" with two different people at the same time. Love, TRUE LOVE, is a once in a lifetime thing, in my opinion, and real love happens between TWO people, no more. And even if Jason loved both of them, then he should not have proposed to either one of them on national television to let his "fiancee" be humiliated. I understand there is a contract, but a REAL man would not do that to the woman that he supposedly loves.
March 4th, 2009 4:27 PM
you are a jerk Jason , I knew it first time I watched the bachelor . from the movements of your eyes each time you were talking to these girls . you dont know what you want , I think this is the mean reason why you are divorced . you were confused between a spontanious woman who is Melissa and a controling woman Molly. to be honest with you, from all these women Jill and Stephanie were the best , but I guess not for you which is good for them ... you shouldnt propose to Melisa if you felt that you are in love with Moly too , and you should not break up with her on national tv that is rediculous . Moly you are a sick woman , you just wanted you things your own way . you didnt accept to fail that s why you took this jerk back , you should give him hard time , after all you are a second choice and if you marry him you will control him very well and remind him of his mistake , you are an idiot Jason , how can you use your kid . melisa belive on yourself and move on , dont say that you are the daumpee anymore you become famous now ,just move on , your man will come to you ,
March 4th, 2009 6:28 PM
I am not judging any of them, but making analysis and comparison of the three parties’ personality with regards to Jason’s expectations, life reality and human behaviour. There is something that you don’t see Molly was more realistic in her interaction with Jason. Their emotions were not a flash; they grow gradually, and she expressed them in many different ways one step at a time knowing when and how to take further steps. In that short period of time, she put all her cards on the table and gave Jason a preview of what their life together would be if he chose her. On the other hand, Melissa-Jason’s interactions were monotonous, and this kind of relationship is boring and does not take long to fade. On the show set they were offered all the fantasies for free, so it was easy for every one to dream and enjoy, but after the show, was Melissa able to follow up in order to keep the flame well lit? I see her more as a typical woman who waits for the man to give the note; “this is her original personality”. We can even see it in her previous relationships according to her friends say during the hometown visit “her former partner would go hang out with friends instead of being with her, and she went on with it for many years.” Also, there were many question marks about Melissa, besides she said to Jason that she had a breast reduction surgery, and we don’t know what the after-show reality was. There might have been serious discoveries and issues to face in the real life that he did not know during the show process. I am a woman and I am aware that my gender likes to hide important truth to a man in order to win him then let him face fact. Jason was looking for happiness, not problems. I feel that there are pieces missing to build the puzzle that we may never find out to understand the “WHY?”
March 4th, 2009 6:29 PM
For you ladies out there, women can deal with monotony easily, but know that men are different, they love to try new things, and hate to be the back bone and the one taking initiatives all the time. They feel more secure with a woman who has the got to take charge, create, innovate, and those actions are relative to the man’s life style. Remember that they have dreams to fulfill just like you, and the same way you rely on them to make your dreams come true, they rely on you to help them fulfill theirs and make them happy in every way. So if you want to keep your partner, take the lead; not to be “the boss”, but to bring the best out of him every day, and you will harvest happiness. For example, if your partner loves to hang out with his friends and you want him to be around; instead of letting him go to them, invite them over as often as you can to a barbecue, or an evening tea with social games, group camping, or beach parties (asking every one to prepare food and bring necessaries). This is all Molly was about in the entire process, and I give her credit for that. After letting the other ladies go all they felt was heart break for themselves, but Molly knowing she was so ready to make Jason happy, was rather worried that he had repeated his mistake and could be hurt again. Remember that the girls exchanged reflections along the process and they know each other’s mind. We are just viewers behind the walls.
March 4th, 2009 11:45 PM
First and foremost ...Jason is a peckerhead...this whole thing just made me ANGRY..I hear the part where he had to do it ..but on T.V....where is your dignity...If you were a real man with balls...(which obviously your not..you big crying p-----)you would never had agreed to this on T.V....somewhere somehow you should have found a way...Isn't it weird to anyone that before the 6weeks was up he was basically quitting...I wonder if he was the same way with his exwife....when is this man going to grow up....He claims to have been hurt and then turns around and hurts someone in the most humilating way possible...you truly have some issues...I can't believe how you handled this ...and I am soooo happy we don't have to see the bullshit crying you do so well...maybe you should start acting for the Hallmark channel...you would be soooo perfect there...All I can do now is pray for Melissa because in case you didn't know you little prick...it's bullshitters like you that turn nice girls like Melissa to bitches...Yes...this is a huge thing you did to a young lady....you are 32 years old if your momma hasn't told you it's about time you act your age not your shoe size imbesol...which is probably know bigger than a 9....you want the public to believe you truly feel bad about what was happening yet....you took no time ask Molly for a chance...A real man would have broken up with her if he had to because whatever your reasons but to disrespect her like this and ask Molly for a chance so quick...A real man would have waited...in respect for the feelings of that person that you cared about....This is what everyone is mad about...how you handled it....Producers might have told you to break up with her on T.V. to make it official...but could you not have waited a few months after then called Molly If it is true love as you claim then it would have been there awhile later...OOOPPPs maybe not you change your mind so quickly or is because you love all the attention your getting from all the shows that have had you after...I just can't believe how you fooled us...and I believe you have gotten a little to big headed for your body..I truly feel sorry for Ty...because how can you teach Ty to grow up to become a real man...when you are NOT...Your kinda like the DEVIL Jason....Your very deceiving...Shame on you for what you are doing or better yet for what you have done ...and know this PAYBACKS ARE A B=---!Know this the devil use to be an Angel from God until he got greedy....You have taken two young ladies....who are at the biggining of there lives and screwd with their hearts...and messed with there minds...Did you not learn anything in your life ...Do you even know what LOVE is...I think Not...what you have is LUST ...another sign from the Devil....Good luck Molly...and Melissa thank God for getting you away from all this...You must be pretty special for God to intercede and take you away from the devils hand...He must have a better plan for you ...You are so special....and True True love will come....Just have faith....Mr Goodguy is out there for you and when meet him you will know this was God's gift to you...I wish you Melissa the best .....and let's face it you gotta feel sorry for Molly she is soooOOo stupidly blinded and being sloppy seconds is never truly winning....besides you are to pretty and sweet and deserves a real man ...not a mommas cry baby!!!If I was Melissas' parents I would want to hurt this guy for doing what he did....If I was Molly's parents I would have some serious issues about him dating my daughter....and my daughter would have been brought home to talk about the mistake she is making...obviously Molly is very insecure to take back this peckerhead so quickly....I can tell you this my husband would not be happy on how this peckerhead handled himself....No respect for Melissa for insulting her and No respect for Molly to have thrown her a bone at the end....What a as Melissa put it soooooOOO perfectly ..B======!!!! ........
March 5th, 2009 1:19 PM
I think there is way more to Melissa than meets the eye. We have all seen these types of people they come off really together in the beginning and then turn into clinging, needy possessive nightmares once they think they have you. I personally think Jason is too kind to say exactly what happened. She had him, he thought he loved her more than Molly. My question is what did Melissa do? How do we know Jason didn't genuinely want Melissa but she changed drastically and left him thinking oh my God I gave up the wrong one.
I may be wrong but who's to say without really knowing what happened after the final rose and what Melissa's role was in that.
March 7th, 2009 3:43 AM
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March 11th, 2009 8:54 PM
I would REALLY like to know the ENTIRE truth behind the Jason and Melissa breakup. I guarantee you that we are not being told everything- not yet anyways. Something happened. Unlike many others, I don't have any harsh words for Jason or Molly. I always felt that Melissa had a dark side. Just a feeling. But I have no harsh words for her either.